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Since this would be the last wedding we would "throw", it was our youngest
daughter marrying, I really wanted it to be a truly southern family and
friends event. While a wedding is the celebration of the
sacramental uniting of two people, for the mother of the bride it is also
the humbling and rewarding dependence on dear friends who come together
offering the support of their friendship. Knowing it was not possible to
accomplish all of the ideas I wanted to create in the garden I had weeded,
watered, edged, mowed and planted, battling drought, water restrictions,
blisters and poison ivy, I decided to throw a "wedding-raising."
Barn-raisings used to be commonplace. Their purpose was to accomplish a
single goal in a very short time and the activity bonded and nourished
friendships as a byproduct. Using "barn-raisings" as my inspiration, I
issued the invitation to a "wedding-raising." Fortunately, among my friends
are some of the most gifted designers in Dothan. |
III. Preparation--I created several charts in preparation for the wedding
in an attempt to organize the orchestration of this event.
A. Plan Ahead: Plant for the future Real preparation for
having a garden event begins with the first landscaping plan one has for their
garden. My mother in law began the preparation by including evergreens,
sasanqua, and magnolias. Fortunately I had added plenty of pittosporum,
magnolia, palms, ivy and aspidistra which now grew in the yard from which we
could gather more of what we needed. Swamp daisies, Mexican petunias, sasanqua,
coral vine, goldenrod, and roses (Knockout and tea) grew in abundance.
B. The Garden plan: Our home consists of a Monterrey style
colonial home set on hill with a two acre lot. In the six months between
when our daughter and her fiance set the date for their wedding, I think I
crawled over all of those two acres pulling weeds and planting flowers.
Then came the drought and the water limitations and there went my dream for a
lush garden. However, the basic bones of the garden showed through with
enough beauty to be welcoming to our guests. In designing the garden for
the wedding, I drew up a basic outline of our garden. In my mind I
envisioned the way it would eventually look and the pictures included here in
the plan show how well the "envisioning" evolved.
Back yard Garden Layout for
Reception
Entrance
North Iroquois
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Entrance/back gate
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Bench and pots entry
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Rose garden |
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Boiled Peanut Area |
3 Smoking area
Eric Newman will offer his
special cigars for a "Smoker" Decorate as a "Man Cave"


Arbor 1 |
Entrance/gate
4 Garden Area
2 Arbor |
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Ribbons on children’s
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12
1n 13 tables under oak
1 long Table
Tall blue wine bottles
with flowers
arbor
Croquet set up
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Table 4
Main
entrance into courtyard area
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3 Arbor |
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Playhouse
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Gazebo |
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Mickey Minnie Mouse
Wedding Cake
Children’s table |
Greenhouse

Closets |
Music
System |
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Heart wreath above gazing
globe |
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Long Music System
camellias floating in bird bath

table 9 Bistro Table 8 Bistro
for
Table
party Tent in center28
chairs
10 Bistro table 11 bistro table |
Ping
pong
Buffet Silver
epergne with 24 pink roses
Floral chandelier
Epergne with 2 doz roses
Coffee Bar |
Patio
7 Table (4)6 Round Table
with ext. 8
Sofa and chairs
Sweetheart table
Unity Candle decoration
bridal
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Table 4
Pool
area
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Table 4 5 Table 4
Entrance to Library blessing tree |
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Flower Bed BEM
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Sunroom Bar
We opened the windows on
both sides of the sunroom and wound up with 2 bar tenders and double
access to the bar. Mums in tall
wine bottles |
Entrance
Entrance Memory
Tree outside Library door
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Small bouquet in bathroom |
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Playroom
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12 pink roses Dining room
Roses in epergne |
Small bouquet Entry Hall
in 12 pink roses in pink brides basket |
Living Room
Wedding Cake

Grooms Cake

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Library white roses in
brides basket |
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Front door |
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Balcony Garland centered
above front door 12 roses center 12 on either wide with ivy garland
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The
Zen of Bubbles |
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Here in the front walking up to the house,
there will be a garland with central flower arrangement and two flanking
arrangements above the front door. The brick walk will have water-filled
glass jars as luminaries. The central flowers will probably be camellias
and sasanquas from our yards.
North
Cherokee Avenue
C. What do we have/What do we need?
I then set about figuring what I had to use and where I would acquire other
items I would need.
We have: 3 patio tables with
4 chairs each
3 bistro tables with 6 chairs
1 kitchen table with 6 chairs
(Back patio table )
2 head chairs from dining
room (Sweetheart Table)
13 card table chairs for
attendants tables
3 bridge tables
6 game table chairs
2 Children’s Table
use picnic table to serve. Use Beatrix Potter for sitting.
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From where? |
Cloth |
Flowers |
Chairs |
Who responsible? |
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Sweetheart table |
Small glass table |
Sharman |
Candleabra from Bayou
Bride’s bouquet |
Chairs from dining room |
Sharman |
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Bridal party |
Loftin’s |
Pans and Petals |
Bridesmaid’s bouquets and
candles |
Loftin’s |
Sharman |
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Tables 12 and 13 |
Pew buckets |
Sharman |
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Tables 9-11
Dancing area |
4 Pew Buckets
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4 P and P |
Pew Buckets and candles but filled with hydrangea and fern |
Loftin’s |
Sharman and Mike |
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Tables 3 – 7
Patio pool |
Glass Engagement |
Sharman |
Engagement glass vases
and candles |
Loftin’s |
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Table 1and 2 |
Blue bottles and flowers |
Sharman |
Blue toile table cloth |
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Buffet outside
Also altar arrangement |
24 Red roses in epergne |
P and P |
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Coffee Bar |
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Sunroom/Bar
Use tall blue wine
bottles with flowers for decoration in this transition room. |
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Playroom |
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Dining room |
Epergne |
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1 dozen antique white
roses in Grandmother R epergne |
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Brides cake |
Round table in center of
living room with jeweled table cloth provided by Pans and Petals
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P and P |
Arrangement back on fern
stand (cut glass vase with hydrangea and calla lilies)Pink hydrangea and
white calla lilies |
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Groom’s Cake |
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Library table |
home |
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Bride’s basket ( 12
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Children’s table |
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Arbors |
Tulle and bows |
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3 Gates |
Tulle and bows |
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Balcony |
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Stairs |
Tulle and bows |
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Lamp post |
Tulle and bows |
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Mail box |
Tulle and bows |
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Saw horses |
Tulle and bows |
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Christmas lights along
fence and arbor |
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We cut pictures out of magazines and from websites to give us ideas.
D. The Schedule
I set up a schedule of the flowers that had to be done and when.
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Floral
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Wednesday,
October 24 |
Limes,hydrangea and
callas in cut glass |
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Altar and living room |
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Green apples, hydrangea
and cannas in cut glass |
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Altar and Living room |
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Burson epergne |
2 doz white roses/fern |
Playroom |
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Ramsey epergne |
1 doz roses /fern,
pineapple, coral vine, lorapetalum |
Dining Room |
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Pink brides basket |
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Entry hall |
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Silver brides basket
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Library |
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Pewter cupid guest bath |
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Guest Bath |
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Yellow paperweight entry
hall |
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Entry Hall |
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Arrangement below mirror
in cut glass bowl |
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Entry hall |
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Arrangement in cut glass
on hall tree |
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Hall tree |
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afternoon |
Headpieces and
baskets |
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Lily |
Floral headpiece 12
roses and ivy |
Flower girl Basket |
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Mary Elle |
Floral headpiece |
Rice bag basket |
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Mallory |
Floral headpiece |
Rice bag basket |
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Friday Morning |
Tussie Mussies |
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Sharman |
3 roses, ivy and baby’s
breath in wet oasis inside of tussie mussie. |
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Arloa |
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Allene |
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Sylvia |
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Mary |
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Mother |
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Friday
Afternoon |
Calla lily
bouquet |
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Brooke |
1 doz calla lilies
wrapped with floral tape and then wrapped with 2 " white satin ribbon.
Pearl top pins extend from top to bottom extending down. |
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The hydrangea bouquet
was tied exactly like the calla bouquet was tied. Remember to
condition well--crush the stem and keep in ice water until needed.
Refresh with ice water. |
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Hydrangea
bouquets |
3 hydrangea |
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Cecily |
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Tied with blue ribbon |
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Andrea |
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Tied with brown ribbon |
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Amanda |
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Christie |
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Lauren |
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Elizabeth |
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Collette |
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Friday
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Headpieces and
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Lily |
Floral headpiece 6 roses
and ivy. Measure head and connect pipe stems to secure roses.
Use smaller roses than these. Secure with wire and then cover with
floral tape. Next time I do this, I will use tiny sweetheart roses
and make sure there are no thorns or pieces of wire that can escape.
While this is beautiful, it was uncomfortable for my little flower girl. |
Flower girl Basket |
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Mary Elle |
Floral headpiece |
Rice bag basket |
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Mallory |
Floral headpiece |
Rice bag basket |
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Corsages |
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Paulette Clardy |
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Elizabeth Brown |
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Cake cutters |
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Boutennieres |
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Rusty |
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Mike, the Groom |
Stick wire through neck
of rose and then wind around stem. Cover with floral tape and then
cover with 1" white satin ribbon. |
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Joe |
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Ben |
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Drew |
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Steve |
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Bryan Hall |
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Lee |
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Kabin |
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Michael |
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Duncan (ring bearer) |
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I had the best of intentions, but unfortunately time became a
serious issue as we got down to the wire and some of those items I had intended
to make did not get made. Fortunately, I had
prioritized
them and what needed to be done was done.
Brooke and her bridesmaids dressed in her bedroom and prepared
to walk down the stairs I'd always envisioned a bride walking down, out of our
home and into a life on her own.
Arrangements for the inside of the house were created the day
the flowers arrived. This antique epergne makes a beautiful dining room
arrangement.
You can learn more about the cigar company of the Newman family,
Lyris, Eric and Drew, at their website:
http://www.cigarfamily.com . They have begun a very important mission
in the Dominican Republic you really should become aware of. I am so proud
and happy I am for my dear friend, Lyris Bruce Newman, her happiness with the
fine man she married, the fine son she has raised, and the contribution she has
made to making the world a better place. I sit here with tears in my eyes,
thanking God for my wonderful friend.
A. G. Branch--BuzzOff Mosquito (334 797-2960)
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